The April 25 MCJC-sponsored PADS dinner fed 35 homeless guests and seven PADS volunteers.
The FOOD PROVIDERS for this dinner were: Gene Lindow (barbecue chicken), Leslie Cook (barley bean vegetable soup), Amy and Ben Llaneta (potato salad), Ellen Morton (green beans), Esther Kaplan (salad), Iza Celewicz (rolls), Kim Solomon Dooley (brownies), and Marian Weiss (chocolate cake, apple sauce raisin cake, and chocolate chip cookie squares).
The FOOD SERVERS for the April 25 dinner were: Amy and BJ Llaneta, Kim Solomon Dooley, Iza Celewicz, Briana and Elsa Salgado, Brian Silver, and Bruce Weiss.
The PADS dish washing volunteers failed to show up the night of April 25, so the following MCJC PADS dinner team members pitched in to help wash the dinner dishes: Kim Solomon Dooley, Iza Celewicz, Briana and Elsa Salgado, Brian Silver, and Bruce Weiss.
The April 25 MCJC-sponsored PADS dinner is the last PADS dinner for the 2017-2018 winter season. The MCJC-sponsored PADS dinners for the 2017-2018 winter season were an amazing success — and they were an amazing success because of the hard work all of you put into them.
I am MCJC’s representative to the Woodstock Area Community Ministries (WACM) which oversees the PADS dinner program. I know first hand how grateful WACM is for MCJC’s participation in this important community service program. MCJC has an outstanding reputation as a caring congregation among the members of WACM for its active involvement in community service projects.
Thank you to all who participated in the 2017-2018 season!
The annual meeting of the McHenry County Jewish Congregation will be held Sunday, May 6, 2018, at 10:30 am. The meeting will include:
• State of the Congregation (Officers Report)
• Board of Directors Election, 2018-19
• Rabbi’s Comments
• Open discussion of congregational matters
The annual meeting coincides with year-end school activities, which will begin at 9:15 am. All members are encouraged to attend the annual meeting starting at 10:30 am, as your input is vital to our success. We hope you also plan to attend our annual school closing picnic, which will start at about 11:15 am.
Each family membership is entitled to two votes (member must be 18 or older). Single members are entitled to one vote.
A quorum (25% of eligible voters) is required to conduct congregational business, so it is important you either attend or provide a proxy. If you cannot attend, you are allowed to designate a vote by proxy. You may print out and sign the proxy below and send it along with a member who is attending the May 17 meeting, or you may cut, paste and complete the proxy and email it to MCJC to Robert.Perbohner@gmail.com or firstname.lastname@example.org
Your vote is necessary to advance the business of this congregation this coming year by voting for or against the slate presented to the congregation by the Nominating Committee. (Also attached is a Proxy Ballot)
MCJC’s Nominating Committee is pleased to announce the following slate of officers for consideration for the 2018-19 fiscal year.
Karen Koenig – co-President
Andy Purvin – co-President (acting Secretary)
Dara Turnball – co-President
Jennifer Finger – Treasurer
At-Large Board Members
We hope you will be able to join us on the May 6. If you have any questions, you can contact Rob Perbohner (email@example.com) or me.
Please cut and paste, complete the proxy, and email it to me at firstname.lastname@example.org or to Rob Perbohner at email@example.com— or employ the tried-and-true technique of printing out the proxy, signing it, and giving it to a member who is attending the meeting.
I, _____________________________________________, will not be able to attend the Congregational Meeting of MCJC on May 6, 2018. I designate the congregant member below to vote on all matters on my behalf.
I turned 13 in December and will be having my Bar Mitzvah service on May 26. One of my favorite sports is basketball; I have been playing since first grade. I’ve played on a traveling league for the past three years, where I get to go all over Wisconsin for games.
I am in the dual language program in my public school where I spend half my day in English and the other half in Spanish. My goal is to have my Biliteracy Seal on my high school diploma.
I also have been playing percussion in band for the past four years. I joined the jazz band in middle school, and really love playing the full drum kit in the fun songs we play.
I first decided to join Hebrew school in third grade. I did not know what to be a Jew meant, other than the few things we did at home. Over time I have been learning and developing my own idea of being Jewish. I wanted to become a Bar Mitzvah because that takes me one step closer to the Jewish community and the MCJC community. I never would have gotten this far if it wasn’t for MCJC and the teachers. They have guided and helped me in so many ways.
One of my biggest passions is giving to those who need a little extra help. When I was younger and my mom took me to Chicago, I would bring all my money to give to the local homeless man where my Aunt
Lauren lived. This is why I have chosen to help my local homeless community with my mitzvah project.
I will be collecting donations for the local PADS shelter here in Woodstock. I will be setting up a collection at MCJC, looking for in kind donations of items such as $5 gift cards to locations like Wal-Mart, Target, CVS, Walgreens, and Jewel. You may also donate items such as hand warmers, sterno, bug spray, ponchos, canned food with easy pop-top lids, small battery operated flashlights, batteries, travel size toiletries, travel size first aid kits, battery operated radios, toilet paper, sun tan lotion, silverware, travel size sewing kits, travel size deodorants, variety sizes of Ziploc bags, and disposable containers for food.
Leadership guru Jim Collins describes a great leader as “an individual who blends extreme personal humility with an intense professional will.” Collins points out that such a combination is a rarity and needs to be recognized and appreciated. “Leaders,” Collins writes, “who possess this paradoxical combination of traits are catalysts for the statistically rare event of transforming a good company into a great one.”
MCJC and I have been blessed to have such leaders at our helm: outgoing president, Jack Fishman, and outgoing vice-president, Rob Perbohner. From my personal experience over the past two years that I have served as MCJC’s spiritual leader, Jack and Rob have weathered the storms that inevitably come with transitions and changes. They have done so with grace, respect, and as true mensches, readily willing to learn, to let go, and most important, to trust. They both truly exemplify the best of a reflective leadership and governance style marked by a careful examination of alternatives, a commitment to overarching purpose, attention to relationships, and a mastery of both big picture and detail. I will miss them both dearly.
Our Torah gives us a model for a healthy transition of leadership in the narrative of Moses presenting his successor, Joshua, to the Israelites: “And Moses went and spoke these words unto all Israel. And he said to them ‘I am a hundred and twenty years-old this day. I can no more go out and come in. And the Lord said to me, ‘You shall not go over the Jordan. The Lord, your God, He will go over before you and Joshua,’ he will go over before you.” (Deuteronomy 31:1-3)
But the narrative leaves the reader in a state of not knowing: How would Moses feel in the end? Might he act on feelings of jealousy? And, how would the Israelites react? Would they embrace Joshua? After all, they had spent the past forty tumultuous years with Moses, through the ups and downs that are at the foundation of any deeply-rooted, intimate relationship formation process. Would they be able to let go of Moses and accept his young assistant, Joshua? And finally, would Joshua, so used to being second-in-command to Moses, be able to assume the mantle of prime leadership? Would he be overwhelmed by this new responsibility, the very fate of his people burdened on his shoulders alone? (Rabbi
Let us return to the first three words cited in the Torah passage above, “And Moses went.” Where, in fact, did Moses go? The great medieval Spanish commentator Ibn Ezra (1089-1167) writes that Moses went from tribe to tribe, tent to tent, comforting his people and encouraging them to embrace the closure of his leadership, while at the same time the continuation of the leadership of God, and the new leadership of Joshua. No one leader, not even Moshe Rabbeinu, Moses our Teacher, the only human to have seen the face of God, is indispensable, irreplaceable. The organization, is far larger than any one person.
All transitions, our Torah is teaching us, leave us with questions, doubts, and fear of the unknown. However, while those times of transitions might feel daunting, it is precisely these in-between phases, before the old is entirely gone and the new entirely settled, which allow for innovation, radically honest self-reflection, and consequently individual, relational, and collective actualization.
As Jack and Rob’s board terms come to an end this May, and as they tirelessly continue to dedicate their time and energy to ensuring a smooth transition to a new MCJC board, they exemplify and inspire the Talmudic dictum: “This is what the Holy One said to Israel: My
children, what do I seek from you? I seek no more than that you have the love for one another, honor one another, and that you have awe and reverence for one another.” (Tanna de Bei Eliyahu Rabbah)
I will miss having Jack and Rob as our board leaders. At the same time, I look forward to working with our new board and new energy. In the end, the Children of Israel entered the Promised Land and thrived. And so shall MCJC.
For those television fans reading this column, you may recognize the two titles of this article as the names of the final episodes of “M*A*S*H” and “Star Trek: The Next Generation,” two of my all-time favorite shows. I thought they were two very aptly named final series episodes.
I thought it was appropriate to use those episodes’ names as the titles of this column – my last newsletter column, after nine years of Board involvement, from Board member-at-large to Executive Vice President, and four years as your President.
In so many of my columns over the years I have reflected on the transitions that I’ve gone through personally and professionally, and those that MCJC has gone through in that same time. Indulge me as I take this approach one last time. These last four years have been nothing short of “revolutionary” for me personally, and so, I dare say, for MCJC.
I have experienced my only child, Rebecca, compete for the last time in the sport she dominated for so long (karate), get her driver’s license and her first car, graduate from high school, get accepted into the college of her choice, transition to college life, make Dean’s List,
and, at age eighteen, already be in a two and half year committed relationship. My twenty five year marriage ended, and while Liz and I remain close friends, my relationship with my partner, Ella, is now almost two years old and still developing. I struggle with some health issues, some ascertainable and others not. Those situations continue to progress.
Over that same time frame, MCJC has transitioned to a non affiliated congregation and has recently entered into what we hope will be a long-term commitment with Rabbi Tom. Sadly, some long-term members departed and are missed. Other young families with young children have joined us. We have new members – and many new faces – on the Board and Executive Board, and we have new committees and new committee members, along with a new approach to our overall religious practice. We have a new look to our school, new office staff, and so much more. Each of our personal revolutions continue, as does the evolution of MCJC.
Where are we as a congregation today? Each of you has to assess that based on your own criteria. I’ve said from the beginning of my Executive Board service that my goal was to leave MCJC in a “better
position” than when I began, and I reiterated that aspiration throughout my two terms as President. We are certainly a very different organization than we were eight years ago, four years ago, and two years ago. Better? I certainly think so. But I am very biased on this point, and “better” is a subjective term.
We’ve weathered some significant storms: the loss of members, and the wind-down of the long-term involvement of others that had become almost second nature to us; ritual and philosophic differences of opinion and practice. And yet here we are.
As I look toward my future as a congregant, I know that my connection with MCJC will change. I will be here less, I will be less involved in what’s going on, I will have less reason to worry about all the minutiae that for the last four years have been part of my daily
routine. But I will love this place no less, and I will feel no less of an affinity for this institution. This building and our sanctuary is where I first spent any real time with Ella. This building and this sanctuary is
where my daughter became a bat mitzvah, with an overflowing crowd of family and friends. It’s where I experienced one of my favorite, never to be forgotten life’s experiences, when Rebecca broke down on the bima as she was thanking Liz and me for helping her get to that moment, leaving not a dry eye in the sanctuary. Thanks to Gene Lindow, we have that moment captured forever on DVD. And that moment happened, at least in part, because of so many of you and our community here at MCJC.
No one knows what the future holds. We don’t know where we will end up in life, where we will be living, what synagogue we may be attending, where our children may live and whether we will move to be close to them. We don’t know what our health will be and what we will be able to accomplish as the years pass.
We can’t necessarily quantify what motivates us to take on the commitments many of us have over the years, some over and over again, both at MCJC and elsewhere. The Board and Executive Board have worked very hard these last few months to make sure that the transition to the incoming Board and Executive Board is as seamless and as easy as possible for all involved.
While we struggled at times with some decisions that needed to be made, I believe that Rob Perbohner, Jen Finger, and Karen Koenig, as well as the entire Board, collectively believe that we are moving in the right direction, moving forward, on the path to stability — financial, religious, and substantive. But we all readily acknowledge we have a long way to go. We have to grow membership, grow our school, find more commonalities, and continue to understand our differences. None of that will come easy, but all of it can come.
We have made quantum leaps in the nine years I’ve been on the Board, not necessarily because of me, or your Board, but because of the sense of community, caring, and belonging that each of us has for this institution. I would be lying if I said I didn’t kvetch about the presidency at times over the years. I wondered if I wanted to take on a second term, and during some of the more tumultuous times, both for me personally and at MCJC, I wondered if it was worth the effort. In hindsight, of course it was, and since it isn’t my nature to quit something I commit to doing, I feel that I succeeded on a number of levels by persevering through those difficult times. Each of you will, of course, have your own opinion of the impact on MCJC.
It has been a privilege, honor, and – most of the time – pleasure, serving as your President. In the long history of MCJC, there have only been a select few individuals who have had that distinction, and to be considered in the same breath as many of those who have come before me, makes me quite proud. I have no doubt that those who will follow me will feelthe same as they reflect on their Presidencies and Board involvement.
This is a melancholy article. I leave with regrets, but “then again too few to mention.” And so I’ll say goodbye for my last official time in this newsletter but hope that I will see you all soon, and fairly often, at the place we call our Jewish home, MCJC.
May you all be blessed with good health, prosperity, happiness, and success, family and enduring friendships. Thank you for the opportunity to have served on your behalf on the Board and as your President.
What a busy couple of months we had leading up to Spring Break. In addition to our regular classroom Hebrew/Judaica/holiday studies, we had some really fun special events!
This culminated in our early March Purim Fest filled with raucous activity! We began with our Megillah reading, where our costume-clad students enjoyed shaking their homemade groggers to Haman’s
name, as the adults enjoyed partaking in the Goldschlager. This was followed by the community compiling bags for the PADS homeless shelter, filled with much needed toiletries and paper goods. Thanks to all for donations! And, of course, we then held our carnival with some new games and prizes, along with a fun raffle. Thanks to the Maintenance Men, as always, for their delicious picnic that morning.
March also brought us wonderful Passover events. Rabbi Scheiman from Chicago joined us for Matzah Making, much to the enjoyment of the students AND the teachers. After a short discussion about the Passover holiday, kids learned how to mix the water and flour. Then while wearing their matzah hats, they rolled the dough and made it “holy”…using a fork. Rabbi baked the matzahs in his oven, and each of the kids was able to take one home…if it got that far! Thanks to Jill Purvin for coordinating this event.
We also joined other synagogues at CKI in Elgin for a special Passover program. We were thrilled to have several teachers, Rabbi Tom, and about ten students from MCJC in attendance. The morning consisted of singing followed by several fun stations including a Passover floor game, matzah tasting contest, and seder plate learning.
Rabbi Tom and Rabbi Friedman from Aurora taught the students about Elijah and Miriam’s cups, which was followed by an art activity where the kids were able to decorate their own beautiful glasses to bring home. They also made creative tambourines to use while we danced and sang. A special thank you to Davina Kelly for helping to coordinate this program, and for coordinating the PJY program this year.
Happy to report that our grade 2/3 class finished making their Torahs and yads…this was a very exciting project that began last year. We held a Torah parade around the school so they could show off their hard work and creativity. These will head home soon with the children.
We are looking forward to an exciting end of the school year, filled with some Israel activities for the upcoming holidays. Please attend Closing Day on Sunday, May 6.
At MCJC, we teach our children to question, to debate, to fall in love with Torah, while finding their own voices in the chorus of our tradition.
Our students don’t have a Bar or Bat Mitzvah – they become a Bar
or Bat Mitzvah. They become responsible adults in the Jewish community and in the world.
Starting in fourth grade and continuing on up to and even past our children’s Bnai Mitzvah ceremonies, Rabbi Tom trains our children to become fluent in the Shabbat morning prayer service which includes proficiency in reading Hebrew, knowing a variety of Jewish liturgical music, and finding personal meaning in the prayers themselves.