Upcoming at MCJC

PLEASE CHECK OUR CALENDAR FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION (left column of this page):

Wednesday, November 29
1:00 pm: Lunch & Learn with Rabbi Tom
4:30 pm: Religious School
5:00 pm: MCJC Blog Development Planning Meeting

Friday, December 1
No Community Shabbat Service & Potluck Dinner
(See Below: December 2nd First Saturdays Havdala Program)

Saturday, December 2
9:30 am: Shabbat Morning Services – Special Torah Study Program (See Below)
5:00 pm: First Saturdays Havdala Program at MCJC (See Below)

Sunday, December 3
9:30 am – 12:00 pm: Annual Hanukka Gift Boutique Fair
Click Here for the Event Flyer

9:15 am: Religious School
11:00 am: JFCS Parenting Workshop: “Let’s talk about Teens, Drugs, and Parenting”
12:00 am: School PTO Meeting
TBD: Thrill Ride Movie Showing (See Below)

Wednesday, December 6
1:00 pm: Lunch & Learn with Rabbi Tom
4:30 pm: Religious School
6:30 pm: Ritual Committee Meeting

Friday, December 8
6:30 pm: Community Shabbat Service & Potluck Dinner

Saturday, December 9
9:30 am: Shabbat Morning Services

Sunday, December 10
9:15 am: Religious School
11:00 am: The Jewish Way with Rabbi Tom

Wednesday, December 13
1:00 pm: Lunch & Learn with Rabbi Tom
4:30 pm: Religious School

Friday, December 15
6:30 pm: Community Shabbat Service & Potluck Dinner

Saturday, December 16
9:30 am: Shabbat Morning Services

Sunday, December 17
9:30 am – 12:00 pm:
MCJC Annual Chanukah Community Party
Click Here for the Event Flyer
(No Adult Ed class with Rabbi Tom)

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Special Shabbat Morning Torah Text Study: “The Collective vs Individual Responsibility”
Saturday, December 2, 2017, at 9:30 am

This Shabbat morning we will dive into the Torah portion, Vayishlach, through a text-based community discussion, titled, “Collective vs Individual Responsibility: Who is Guilty and Who is Less Guilty.”

Click Here for preparatory readings.

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JFCS Parenting Workshop
Sunday, December 3, 2017, at 11:00 am

“Let’s talk about Teens, Drugs, and Parenting”

What is it about teens? Why and how do they go from cute kid to eye-rolling teen in the blink of an eye? What is the developmental job of a teenager, and how does a parent support the work the teen needs to do? Why are drinking and drugs so often part of the life stage, and what can parents do to keep their kids safe? Gain wisdom from some of the expert psychologists of this generation as shared by social worker and mom Tracey Lipsig Kite, LCSW.

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MCJC Annual Chanukah Gift Boutique
Sunday, December 3, 2017
9:30 am – Noon

Buy your Chanukah and holiday gifts at our Annual Holiday Gift Boutique.
Click Here for the Flyer

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“Thrill Ride”: A Special Movie Showing
Sunday, December 3, 2017
(Showtimes Coming)

This movie, “Thrill Ride” is written and directed by MCJC members, Chris and Illisa Parrish. It is based on a story from their son Mason, who passed away from brain cancer in 2011. Mason was a student in our Religious School, where his brother Max, currently attends. Proceeds from the film go toward The Mason Parrish Foundation, and will be used to fund pediatric brain tumor research.

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Annual Chanukah Party
Sunday, December 17, 2017
9:15 am – Noon

Join us for our annual Chanukah Party. There will be lots of fun and games, music, and of course our Maintenance Guys’ famous latkes!

Click Here for the Flyer

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MCJC Diamonds’ Christmas Eve Chinese Dinner
Sunday, December 24, 2017, at 5:30 pm

Did someone say Chinese? Join your MCJC friends for a Christmas Eve Tradition at the New China Restaurant, 72 N. Kennedy Dr. (RT. 25), in Carpentersville, IL 60110 (tel: 847-428-2228) All are welcome: Diamonds Members, friends, and friends of friends…. R.S.V.P. to Lois at loisshar@gmail.com or at 847-854-0584.

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Habitat for Humanity

Habitat for Humanity believes that everyone should have a decent, safe, and affordable place to live. We build and repair houses all over the world using volunteer labor and donations. To aid in this, the MCJC Social Action Committee is coordinating volunteer efforts with the local McHenry County Habitat for Humanity group. We volunteer on Wednesdays at the work site (locations change depending on build schedules). No construction experience is required, only the desire to help. We are supervised by experienced personnel. All tools and safety equipment are supplied by Habitat. For a look at some of the projects we are currently involved in, please Click Here. If you would like to volunteer, please contact Howard Frank at howard.gail.frank@gmail.com.
MCJC’s Care Committee

MCJC’s Care Committee is here to ensure that our members are served during times of difficulty as well as during times of joy. You can participate as much or as little as your time permits: make a meal, shovel someone’s driveway, send a get-well card, etc. For more information, please contact Rabbi Tom.

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Lunch & Learn with Rabbi Tom
Wednesdays, 1:00 pm

Explore Jewish history through the lens of the erratic, the unpredictable, the fascinating, and the truly inspiring. Drop in whenever your schedule permits: for a single session or every week. Check MCJC’s calendar for any schedule changes.
The Jewish Way with Rabbi Tom
Sundays, 11:00 am

Learn about and experience the many faces of Judaism. Find those touchpoints of meaning and memory-making that Judaism offers. Check MCJC’s calendar for any schedule changes.

President’s Message: Assessing the Present and Looking Ahead

MCJC Connections
November/December 2017 ~ Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet ~ Vol. 5778

By Jack Fishman

It’s hard to believe, but as I write this, the High Holidays are now be- hind us. We’ve just finished ten very emotional days, led by Rabbi Tom, Gene Lindow, and the Ritual Committee.

While we have yet to determine the results of the financial appeals,
and while we are still finalizing our membership count, dues accounting, and other economic matters, it’s an appropriate time to mention how wonderful it was seeing such a great turnout for all of our High Holiday services. It was encouraging and fulfilling to see so many members, along with new and different faces – some guests, some friends and relatives of members, others who were just “trying us out” during the holidays. We certainly hope we see many of those new faces again and again, and that many become members.

As I mentioned during my comments, the Board has two very weighty agenda items to address in the very near future: determining whether or not, and if so, under what terms, Rabbi Tom’s contract may be renewed; and working on Board and Executive Board succession planning, in anticipation of losing three of the four Executive Board members, and most likely at least one or two members at large, in May.

As you’ve heard me say over and over, your Board deserves great appreciation for the yeoman’s work they do, often unknown and behind-the-scenes.

Being a Board member is a very rewarding experience, and that has been even more so during these last few years, while we have undergone some fairly significant changes. Being at the forefront of some of those changes, which hopefully will ultimately inure to everyone’s benefit, has been a vital part of your Board’s agenda.

However, being a Board or Executive Board member is also a very time-consuming job. There aren’t many days that go by when there isn’t some MCJC issue to deal with: building and grounds, security, education, ritual, financial, programming, or something else.

Your Board has been a very hands-on Board, getting involved in a number of very different issues. While Board members do, and should, bring their own ideas and agendas to the Board, it is important that the Board as a whole operate fairly consistently and uniformly for the good of the organization which they represent, in this case, MCJC. Dissenting opinions are always welcome, and as such these differing views are the backbone of our democratic society, and they are never disregarded. But ultimately, every Board seeks unanimous, or at least majority, consensus, so that it
knows it is moving forward in the best interests of those they represent as their constituents. Sometimes the things we do as a Board or Executive Board are not agreeable to all members or not immediately understood, if at all, and some issues often remain contentious, even after we have acted. Not everything we do may ultimately prove to be successful, although we certainly believe it will be when we vote to act in a certain way. No one and no group or organization is perfect, and your Board is prone to that same human
fallibility.

I go into all this detail by way of indicating that there is no perfect or utopian recipe for a successful Executive Board, Board, or President. When my term is over, and everything is said and done, as I said in
my Yom Kippur speech, it will be up to each of you individually to assess whether or not the last four years, and especially the last few years during our period of transition, has been beneficial or not. I’d like to think that the majority of our congregation believes that what we’ve done has been in the collective majority’s best interest, and that even those dissenters understand why we’ve taken the actions we have, and that ultimately they may come to accept, if not agree
with, the path we have taken.

It soon will be time for a new set of leaders to step up and take on the weighty task of helping to maintain our fiscal and substantive growth, stability, and existence. I believe we will leave the organization in very good shape for that next generation of leaders. However, those leaders have not yet been identified. While ultimately the Executive Board, along with a nominating committee, will work to identify and ultimately put forward nominations for our future leaders, we hope to begin the process of identifying and working with members who may have an interest in advance,
to prepare them and the congregation for that transition. While we have already begun the process of trying to identify individuals who may want to join the Board, we are opening up the process for those who would like to express an interest in at least being considered for Board positions.

Requirements: ability to work long and odd hours, sometimes at a moment’s notice; a strong personality to stand up for what you believe is in the best interest of the organization; the ability to build a consensus among your fellow Board members; the ability to recognize when you are wrong or you need to back down from a position; the ability to accept criticism – from fellow Board members, the rabbi, and the congregation; but also the ability to give
criticism – hopefully constructively – when necessary. I have had the good fortune to be President of a number of organizations – both civic and professional.

I have made a point to work diligently to have my successors well-groomed before my terms were over, so those individuals could step into their positions with the appropriate tools to be successful. I’d like to follow that same mantra at MCJC and begin to work with
the potential leaders well before the May transition.

In light of the issues we will address soon – the rabbi’s contract and potential renewal, the financial impact of our appeal and how that relates to MCJC’s budget for the coming year, the always present security issues, our building and ground issues, operations, school,
programming, etc. – there’s plenty to keep prospective
Board members interested and active while “learning
the ropes,” over the next few months.

Not everyone who expresses an interest will be able to serve, or ultimately be selected by the nominating committee, but there are plenty of needs, including committee positions that need to be filled, and we look forward to working with interested members.

As with every other relationship and organization, MCJC’s success will be a combination of a number of factors and a number of individuals – our spiritual leader, our Board, our teachers, committee chairs and members, other volunteers and the congregation at
large.

As your current Board enters the last eight months of the term, we look forward to working with those of you who are ready, willing, and able, and those who are ultimately chosen and accept the challenge of serving, to serve with us as we pass the mantle of MCJC’s leadership. MCJC’s future is in all of your hands. I’m confident that’s a good thing.

The MCJC Book Club November 2017 Meeting

MCJC Connections
November/December 2017 ~ Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet ~ Vol. 5778

The MCJC Book Club continues to meet
every other month! Our next meeting will
be Thursday, November 9, 2017 @ 7:30 p.m.
We will discuss WINDY CITY BLUES
by Renee Rosen.
When her piano talents are discovered by a record company, Leeba becomes an accomplished songwriter and friend to several blues legends before her romance with a black guitarist is met by racism and anti-Semitism in segregated Chicago during the civil rights
era. This book is part of the Spertus One Book, One Community program. We may be able to SKYPE with
the author.

Our next meetings are scheduled for January 25,
March 15, and May 10, 2018.

Please help us choose three books we will read from
the descriptions of five books below suggested by our
facilitator, Rachel Kamin. Email your choices to Rita
Janowitz at bookclub@mcjconline.org.

Moonglow by Michael Chabon (Paperback)
A man bears witness to his grandfather’s deathbed confessions, which reveal his family’s long buried history and his involvement in a mail-order novelty company, World War II, and the space program.

The First Love Story by Bruce Feiler (PB 3/20/18)
Presents a revelatory account of Adam and Eve’s symbolism as central figures in western imagination and their role in shaping humanity’s deepest feelings about relationships, family, and togetherness.

Bertrand Court by Michelle Brafman (PB)
The author of Washing the Dead intertwines seventeen
luminous narratives about the secrets of an unforgettable
cast of politicos, filmmakers, and housewives, all tied to
a suburban cul-de-sac.

Jumping Over Shadows: A Memoir by Annette Gendler (PB)
Like her Great-aunt Resi, Annette Gendler, a German,
fell in love with a Jewish man. But unlike her aunt,
whose marriage was destroyed by “the Nazi times,”
Gendler found a way to make her impossible love survive.

And After the Fire by Lauren Belfer (PB)
A tale inspired by historical events, traces the experiences of two women whose lives are transformed by a mysterious Johann Sebastian Bach choral masterpiece.

New Year; “New” Kitchen

MCJC Connections
November/December 2017 ~ Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet ~ Vol. 5778

In the frenzy of activities leading up to this year’s
High Holy Days, some very ambitious, brave members
collaborated to give our kitchen a fresh look.

Eileen Franks, Adrienne Himmelfarb, Esther Kaplan and Leslie Cook painstakingly organized and cleaned our community
kitchen.

Our MCJC Maintenance Crew followed up and attached new red knobs on cabinets in the rearranged meat section, added power sources, added a shelf for disposables so they are more accessible and easier to track and carried out the gargantuan task of cleaning the adhesive off the counter tops from contact paper. A big Todah Rabbah to Dale Mortenson, Steve Borress and Gene Lindow.

As part of the much-needed project, a small, new
refrigerator was purchased by Eileen Franks for upstairs, to be
used for Shabbat morning Kiddushes.

In coming days, we hope to order a few new items so that we have fully operational dairy, meat and pareve sections. With the cleaning and reorganizing, filling in some missing pieces, our new little refrigerator and some quality equipment we purchased with our Israel Day grant, we can enjoy and learn together in our community kitchen.

Todah Rabbah, everyone!

Corners of Our Fields 5778

MCJC Connections
November/December 2017 ~ Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet ~ Vol. 5778

As is our custom at MCJC, the High Holy Days usher in our “Corners of Our Fields” food drive, in conjunction with Mazon: A Jewish Response to Hunger.

Todah rabbah to all those who contributed this year. MCJC donated $523.55 pounds of food to the Algonquin/Lake in the Hills Interfaith Food Pantry!

Feel free to use the envelopes attached to the grocery bags to mail donations to Mazon at any time throughout the year. Your donations are much appreciated.

The Jewish Heart of McHenry County

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