Next MCJC PADS-sponsored Dinner Wednesday, December 26

The next MCJC-sponsored PADS dinner is Wednesday, December 26, 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm at Redeemer Lutheran Church, 1320 Dean Street in Woodstock.

Gene Lindow and his Trio Grille chef, Adam, will make Italian Beef sandwiches for the entree.  Leslie Cook will provide soup. Marian and I will provide cookies, brownies, and a cake.

I need some input for something to serve with the Italian Beef sandwiches. What kind of potato dish (french fries? potato chips? other potato dish?) . . . what kind of vegetable/salad (coleslaw? fruit salad? regular salad?). We will not need rolls for this meal.

We will need a minimum of 4 servers. Most likely we will again have to wash a few dishes, although we will use paper plates and bowls as much as possible.

I know this PADS dinner is right in the heart of the holiday season, but I hope we will still have enough help with this important community mitzvah.

I will find out from Jackie Kroeger (PADS Dinner Coordinator) how many guests have come to the PADS dinners this month and let everyone know so we can plan effectively.

Thanks for your help, and warm regards,
Bruce Weiss,
MCJC Social Action Chairperson

An Interfaith Program: Planting the Seeds of Community & Friendship

Our neighbors at Resurrection Catholic Church invite us to join their community on the evening of Friday, January 4, 2019 at 6:00 pm for a presentation, community meal, and conversation.

All ages are welcome! Children’s activities and babysitting will be provided.

Dr. Anne M. Carpenter presents biblical accounts of Mary and how those accounts were incorporated into the theology of early and Medieval Christianity.

We will continue the evening with a community meal and conversation.

This event is convened by Resurrection Catholic Church, AMCO, the Ridgefield Presbyterian Church and McHenry County Jewish Congregation. We will meet on this occasion at Resurrection, 2918 S. Country Club Rd., Woodstock, Illinois, 60098.

Future fellowship events for adults, youth and children will be on a quarterly basis, moving around among our various places of worship. The culmination of this year’s Seeds of Friendship is planning and planting a vegetable garden next summer, and taking the harvest to a local soup kitchen or food pantry in fall of 2019.

Please RSVP so we know how to plan the food:

Rachael Sowa (Ridgefield-Crystal Lake Presbyterian Church) –

Umar Carter (AMCO) –

Danielle Cairoli (Resurrection Catholic Church) –

MCJC Book Club Makes Its Picks

Following a Jewish thread yet mixing up the genres, MCJC’s Book Club will tackle an Israeli novella series, a split-screen work of historical fiction, and an autobiographical account of what it means to be Jewish in modern day New York.

The group will meet at MCJC on Thursday, Jan. 10 at 7 pm to discuss Three Floors Up by Israeli writer Eshkol Nevo. This compilation of three novellas explores the interconnected lives of the residents of an upper middle-class Tel Aviv apartment building, people whose turmoils, secrets, confessions, and decisions reveal the ills of a society with an identity crisis.  

Next, on Thursday, March 14, the group will gather to discuss The Cloister by James Carroll. A priest and a Holocaust survivor find their perspectives and senses of identity reshaped by their shared investigation into the classic romance between discredited religious scholar Peter Abelard and his intellectual paramour, Heloise.

Finally, on Thursday, May 30, the group will discuss My Jewish Year by Abigail Pogrebin. Although she grew up following some holiday rituals, Pogrebin realized how little she knew about their foundational purpose and contemporary relevance. She wanted to understand what had kept these holidays alive and vibrant and chronicles her journey into the spiritual heart of Judaism in this captivating, educational, and inspiring memoir.  

All are welcome to participate in the Book Club at any time. Rachel Kamin, director of the cultural and learning center at North Suburban Synagogue Beth-El, facilitates all discussions.

We encourage participants to make a donation of $36 to MCJC to help cover the cost of the facilitator. For more information, contact Rita Janowitz at  

New at MCJC: Extending Shabbat

This past month, we began a new program at MCJC: a monthly program to extend our time together on Shabbat. In December, there was a Community Havdalah program. In January, we will share an Extended Kiddush.

The Extended Shabbat in January will include light fare, Zemirot, and Talmud Torah. The program has an adult focus. We invite you to bring vegetarian items to share.

The upcoming date for our Extended Shabbat experience is

Saturday, January 12, 2019, 9:30 am – 3:30 pm – Extended Kiddush & Talmud Torah following the service.

We hope you will join us every Shabbat for community sharing, prayer and study.

Important Winter Date Changes at MCJC

Following a decision of the Ritual Committee, please note the following winter program changes and additions:

MCJC COMMUNITY SHABBAT POTLUCK DINNERS will NOT meet on these dates (Winter Break):

  • Friday, December 21, 2018
  • Friday, December 28, 2018
  • Friday, January 4, 2019
  • Friday, January 11, 2019


Saturday, January 12, 2019, 9:30 a.m. – 3:30 pm

We will join together following services for an extended Kiddush, Zemirot, and Talmud Torah. Our study time will have an adult focus. We welcome vegetarian dishes to share.

Friday, January 18, 2019 at 6:30 pm

Watch for additional information in your weekly e-nouncements.

Torah: National Self-Reflection

Vayigash 2018

The great Medieval poet and and thinker, Rabbi Yehuda HaLevi, asks Jews of all generations–past, present and future: Are we any different than all other peoples similarly rooted in ethnic and religious particularism, harboring tendencies toward demonizing the “other” in our midst?


Torah: Genesis 44:18 – 47:27 — Click here.
Haftarah: Ezekiel 37:15 – 37:28 – Click here.

Upcoming at MCJC Week of December 11, 2018

For more information about any of these listings, please visit our website, either the provided links or the MCJC Calendar at

Wednesday, December 12
NO Lunch and Learn
4:30 pm: Religious School

Friday, December 14 
NO Community Shabbat Potluck Dinner – Check out our new Community Havdalah Dec. 15, below.

Saturday, December 15
9:30 am: Shabbat Morning Services & Torah Discussion
3:30 pm: MCJC Community Havdalah. We will meet at 3:30 pm Shabbat afternoon for light fare, Zemirot and Talmud Torah. The program has an adult focus.

Sunday, December 16
8:00 am: Board Meeting
9:30 am: Religious School
11:00 am: Adult Education

Tuesday, December 18
6:00 pm: Communications Committee Meeting at Panera, Crystal Lake

Wednesday, December 19
1:00 pm: Lunch and Learn
4:30 pm:  Religious School Special Outdoor Session – Wear warm winter clothes!

Friday, December 21
NO Community Shabbat Potluck Dinner (Plan to attend our next Community Havdalah Jan 12.)

Saturday, December 22
9:30 am: Shabbat Morning Services & Torah Discussion

Sunday, December 23
NO Religious School– Winter Break
NO Adult Education – Winter Break

 Wednesday, December 26
NO Lunch and Learn
NO Religious School

Friday, December 28 
NO Community Shabbat Potluck Dinner (Plan to attend our next Community Havdalah Jan 12.)

Saturday, December 29
9:30 am: Shabbat Morning Services & Torah Discussion

Sunday, December 30
NO Religious School– Winter Break
NO Adult Education – Winter Break

A Message from Rabbi Tom: Havdalah at MCJC

January – February 2019 – Kislev/Tevet/Sh’vat
Volume 5780

Rabbi Tom Samuels

On November 17, the MCJC community gathered on a Saturday evening for a Havdalah program. We sang, prayed the mystical Havdalah service, ate and schmoozed (of course), and kids of all ages made Hanukkah menorahs out of pizza dough. We all experienced tremendous amounts of fun and joy.

Building on this great experience, we are planning a monthly Havdalah program throughout the year. Please watch our weekly e-nouncements for upcoming dates, logistics, and themes. 

With this in mind, I want to share some thoughts on Havdalah, and specifically on how we can find holiness in our everyday lives in a Jewish way.

Elie Wiesel, may his soul rest in peace, tells of the poet who was asked what thing he would save from his burning home – but only one thing. What would it be? The poet answered that he would save the fire itself, for without the fire, life would not be worth living. 

Fire plays an integral role throughout the Torah. The first act of Creation, creating light, leads to the creation of all sources of energy including fire. Soon afterward came the crowning event of Creation, Shabbat. And when the first Shabbat was over, Adam watched as the sun went down. An ever-deepening gloom unfolded, and Adam’s heart was filled with terror, lost in the absolute darkness. God gave Adam the intuition to rub two stones together to discover fire, upon which Adam exclaimed, “Blessed be the Creator of the lights of fire.” Thus the light of the first Shabbat was like the primordial light of the first day of Creation, in which it was possible to see from one end of the universe to the other, for on both days the light lasted and the darkness was held back. (From Howard Schwartz’s Tree of Souls: The Mythology of Judaism)

This story is in stark contrast to the Creation myths of other cultures. In the Greek myth of Prometheus, Prometheus steals fire from the jealous gods and secretly shares it with the humans. For this he is chained to a rock and tortured for eternity.

In the Jewish tradition, the fire is neither stolen nor denied to humanity. It is a gift from God as part of a symbiotic relationship, whereby both God, the eternal, and man–the infinite and the finite — co-create and collaborate on the ongoing quest to make and improve the world. 

The Creation story is re-enacted every week on Shabbat. For six days there is an invigorating and intense creation process in the physical realm. We usher in Shabbat with light, the candles. On this seventh day, we cease activity in order to make room for the life of the soul. We welcome in our Neshama Yeteira, our additional soul. And then at the end of the Shabbat, we welcome back into our lives the Chol, the ever-potentially-holy everyday, with fire. (From Rabbi Pinchas Peli’s Torah Today)

The word Havdalah means to differentiate, or to distinguish. The entire ceremony is to distinguish between the Shabbat that we have just experienced, and the week that we are about to enter. 

We say three blessings: first over the wine, a symbol of joy. We take pleasure in what we have accomplished, and hope that it will continue to grow into the week. Then we say a blessing over the spices, whose fragrance we inhale to comfort our soul at the loss of Shabbat. Finally is the prayer over the flame, which symbolizes light and darkness and the ability to see the difference in a very deep way. 

The greatest tool we have for appreciating anything is the ability to distinguish and differentiate. When we see things as rare and unique, they stand out as special and somehow have their own place in the world. Yet all too often we have a hard time utilizing this tool and seeing things for their own uniqueness. Masses of people just become ordinary beings. Beautiful sunsets all start to look the same. Our challenge is to discern and see the minute differences that exist in the world, in order to appreciate their rare and unique qualities and thus take pleasure in their existence. (From Rabbi Jonathan Sacks’ Covenant & Conversations: Exodus)

In the Havdalah ceremony, we set a braided candle aflame, and hold up our fingers to see the light and shadows dancing upon them. Shabbat is over. We mark its end with Havdalah and recognize the beginning of the week. For the week is not Shabbat. If we have used the Shabbat properly, however, we may be able to infuse some of it into our new week.

Rabbi Tom, MCJC

Multiplying Blessings: End the Year on a Charitable Note

In the coming days, MCJC members will receive this letter. We invite all friends of MCJC to consider this end-of-year appeal.

Dear MCJC Congregants and Supporters . . .

As the calendar year comes to an end, we hope you will consider our end-of-year appeal and respond with your support.

MCJC continues to need your financial commitment as we face budgetary shortfalls. While we have taken steps to minimize costs without sacrificing our services and programs, we continue to face financial challenges. We are stepping up our fundraising efforts along with new member recruitment during the next year, but we hope you will consider this opportunity for end-of-year gift giving.

Please take your time with the attached form, and fill in as many lines as you can. When you reach the last line, pause to think about all the blessings in your life.

Then return the form and your donation check as soon as possible but no later than December 31, 2018. Please write “Blessings” on your check.

You may also donate simply and securely online by using the Express Blessings Donation button halfway down the right column of every page of our website, .

Thank you in advance for your generosity,


The Jewish Heart of McHenry County

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