High Holy Days
A Journey to Peace 5784 Rosh Hashanah to Yom Kippur
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Day 1 – Relationships: Am I Looking Within?
Renewal of our relationships means asking big questions. How am I interacting with my friends, family, community, and work?
Do I owe anyone an apology? Do I need to return a borrowed item? Can I mend a broken connection? Have I left a promise undone?
Make a list.
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Day 2 - Physical Self Care: Am I Listening to My Body's Needs?
Am I taking care of my physical body?
Have I had medical and dental check-ups? Am I getting enough rest and quiet time? Am I caring for my changing challenges? Do I pay attention to my diet and exercise?
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Day 3 - Spiritual Practice: Am I Seeking Growth?
What am I doing to grow spiritually?
What new activity have I tried or re-introduced into my routine?
Are there comforting practices in my day, week, or monthly schedule?
Do I have someone in my life or in my community to guide me?
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Day 4 - Anger: Am I resentful?
Is there someone in my life that has hurt me? Have I retaliated? What is MY part?
Can I forgive or start to forgive? Can I ask for forgiveness? Do I need help with this?
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Day 5 - Fear: Why am I afraid?
What, and of whom am I fearful? Why? Make a list.
Are these fears real or imagined? Are there things I do in my life to reduce those fears? Are these actions healthy?
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Day 6 - Truth: Do I practice honesty with myself and others?
Do I justify “exceptions from the truth” to create perceived positive results?
Am I more concerned with seeking approval than being truthful?
When I am not being honest about how I feel regarding a relationship, decision, lifestyle, etc., do I avoid making changes?
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Day 7 - Balance: Where is the joy, love, and play in my life?
Does my life contain tangible fun? Is it enough?
Do I actively seek enriching experiences, entertainment, and generosity?
Can I turn off multimedia and electronic devices for a part of my day or week? Do I honor and spend time in nature?
Do I listen?
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Day 8 – Patience: "Tell me yes, tell me no, but please don’t tell me to wait."
Do I always treat time as a commodity, or can I slow down? Does my agenda supersede all others? Can I stay in the moment, or do I live in the past and the future?
How can I do better?
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Day 9 – Hope and Gratitude: Every day is a new beginning. We can start over any time.
Prayer and meditation can take us to a place of unselfish and focused spiritual growth.
Am I willing to add just one new practice to my daily routine, or more? Do I need help with this?
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Day 10 – Service: A Start, A Smile, Thank You
The path to peace and joy lies in the ability to do for others when our motives are not self-serving. Even the smallest token or act of kindness is enough each day.
A Start can be a smile, “Thank You,” an anonymous gift or gesture, a kind word to a stranger, comforting the sick, supporting the grieving, asking for forgiveness, sharing a talent, or protecting the natural world.